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A GREAT ARTICLE, SUPPLEMENTAL TO STEPPING ON THE BATTLE FIELD

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Rhino #4 The Basics

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Rhino #4 The Basics4 BASIC TRUTHS OF VIOLENT ASSAULT 

Assaults happen closer, faster, more suddenly and with more power than most people can understand.

Closer: Most self-defense drills are practiced at an optimum distance where the attacker must take at least a half step to contact. This gives techniques like blocks enough time to have an effect. You rarely have this time or this distance in an assault. Give some thought to how your technique will work if there is no room to turn or step. Remember that the attacker always chooses the range and the location, and will pick a place and position that hampers your movements.

Faster: When your martial arts students are sparring, use a stop watch and time how many blows are thrown in a minute. Even in professional boxing, the number is not that impressive. Then time how many times you can hit a heavy bag in a second. Eight to ten times a second is reasonable for a decent martial artist. An assault is more like that. Because the threat has chosen a time when the victim is off-guard, he can attack all-out with no thought of defense. A competent martial artist who is used to the more cautious timing of sparring is completely unprepared for this kind of speed. You can strike ten times a second. You can’t block ten times a second.

More suddenly: An assault is based on the threat’s assessment of his chances. If he can’t get surprise, he often won’t attack. Some experts will say that there is always some intuitive warning. Possibly, but if the warning was noted and heeded, the attack would be prevented. When the attack happens, it is always a surprise.

More power: There is a built-in problem with all training. You want to recycle your partners. If you or your students hit as hard as they can every time they hit you will quickly run out of students. The average criminal does not hit as hard as a good boxer or karateka can hit, but they do hit harder than the average boxer (because of gloves) or karateka has ever felt. More often than not, the first strike in an ambush lands. Fighting with a concussion is much different than sparring.
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Rory, 

What you wrote “hits the nail on the head” _

This has been precisely the criticism of our prearranged work with a view to self-defense ideation as opposed to simply a sparring tool and general sharpening of rote technique.

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Closer: Most self-defense drills are practiced at an optimum distance where the attacker must take at least a half step to contact. This gives techniques like blocks enough time to have an effect. You rarely have this time or this distance in an assault.


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Remember that the attacker always chooses the range and the location, and will pick a place and position that hampers your movements.


I find this to be totally denied and misunderstood.

The tendency in students’ minds is to replicate an attack which mimics their prearranged training.
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Then time how many times you can hit a heavy bag in a second. Eight to ten times a second is reasonable for a decent martial artist.

An assault is more like that. Because the threat has chosen a time when the victim is off-guard, he can attack all-out with no thought of defense.

A competent martial artist who is used to the more cautious timing of sparring is completely unprepared for this kind of speed. You can strike ten times a second. You can’t block ten times a second.


Again, this goes to the “block mentality” that for the most part I find useless.
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Re: Rhino #4 The Basics 

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Originally posted by RA Miller Eight to ten times a second is reasonable for a decent martial artist. … You can strike ten times a second. You can’t block ten times a second.


I totally agree witht he point you’re making about attacks overwhelming defense, but I’ll admit I’m surprised at the figure 8-10 times a second.
What kind of punches are these?

I’ve tried flurrying at bags and in air, with various kinds of punches, just to see how fast I can go and never get anywhere close to that. But maybe I’m not a decent martial artist. Smile I’d love to learn how to throw a series of strong punches with that kind of speed.
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WHY THE ENEMY IS SO WILLING TO STEP ON TO THE BATTLE FIELD

Posted in special forces training, body guard, judo, tai chi, punching, kicking, blocking, stick fighting, knife fighting, kung fu, ninjutsu,, Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on January 14, 2011 by thebrutalityofreality

Why is the enemy willing to step onto the battlefield?
When we get into an argument or we are faced with the possibility of having a fight on our hands, we have a choice to step on the battlefield or to sit at the negotiation table.

Fights occour out of ignorance and lack of tolerance.  I have been guilty of this many times.  Life is a negotiation with everyone.  When someone gives us the finger or shouts an insult we are programmed by society to either ignore it or engage in a shouting match or finger flipping fight.  We are taught to take things at face value.
We must think of life as a constant negotiation and battlefield.  As we walk thru our everyday lives we must imagine that we are in the stands of an athletic event.  The athletes are on the field.  Some are actively playing and some are sitting on the side lines waiting to prove their skills.  Most are just observing in the stands.  We move about our lives in the stands.  This area is full of one sides opinions and unfounded statements of half truths and ignorance.  Here the motive is not fact but emotion.  Anyone will speak out of fear, jealousy, love, hatred, etc.  the sidelines are the people who are looking for trouble.  They are looking out onto the field and feeling like failures.  They are not interacting in life, they are waiting to prove themselves.  Yet they cannot go out onto the field and find honor.  They are the backups and the lowest of the honorable.  The players already on the field are doing battle.  For whatever reason they have stepped onto the battlefield and are trying to prove they are right with no thought of the consequences of their actions and no regard for the truth.
Example.  You are walking thru a store {the stands} and someone won’t move over in the aisle.  As you pass each other they bump you.  Now is the time to assess your enemy and make the decision whether or not to step onto the battlefield.  This person becomes belligerent and insists that you should have moved.  CHOICE.  You can either bow down to them and apologize or tell them to stick it in their ass.  Maybe if you apologize it will make a fight happen and you will unwittingly step onto the battlefield.  Maybe it will diffuse the situation.  Maybe telling them to stick it will make them go away as they were not really willing to do battle.
First you must carry yourself in a manner that lets other know you are not looking for a battle but if challenged you will have no hesitation to step onto the battlefield.  Most times this will end the confrontation with bullies.  But you must be ready to back up your words.  You cannot be rigid.  But you cannot adopt a demeanor of submissiveness either or you will never get off the battlefield.  You will be a slave to everyone.
The key here is to look past the incident and quickly reason why it just happened.  Here’s where the experience comes in. Most of the time a person {in the stands} will extend a rude gesture or word out of some sort of frustration and feeling of inadequacy.  If you cannot give them a reason not to step onto the battlefield they will certainly push for that as they see it as the only way to feel better about some other failure.
Example:  the person who bumped you may have lost his job and feels like a wimp because he couldn’t stand up to his boss.  He may have lost a fight with someone else who bumped him and now he wants to get even with someone who had nothing to do with his misfortune.  He may have just had a bad day and doesn’t know how else to relieve his stress.  Here you must be the leader.  You cannot force him to follow you off the sidelines and back into the stands.  After all he is calling you out onto the battlefield.  Time for negotiations.  Do the right thing and take away his reason.  If you were indeed wrong, not paying attention and bumped him, apologize but with confidence.  In the manner which shows you are honorable and admit your mistakes but this kindness is not a weakness and you cannot be exploited.  If you were right and he bumped you, you may choose the same path or you may explain you didn’t have any room to move over and he should have seen this.  In either case you can be seen as reasonable and right.  If you yell back you are engaging in battle and now you are the follower.  Make him the follower and show him the way out and how he can feel good about himself.  He is lacking confidence and that is why he is so willing to have to prove himself.  If you are a skilled fighter you do not have this need.  Your goal should be to beat your enemy without a confrontation.  Again someone who is made to submit or follow by force cannot be trusted but someone who sees your way as a benefit will be loyal.  After you respond in a reasonable manner and the person still insists on stepping onto the battlefield, you must make a choice.  Consider several things.  Are you capable of beating this enemy on his battlefield, can you take him to your battlefield {maybe you’re a good standup fighter but you will lose on the ground and you know he is a ground fighter- maybe there isn’t room for you to fight your fight, you should take him outside, maybe you are a great close quarter fighter, make him follow you into a small space}, if you think you can prevail make your choice- choice is the key word , you don’t have to fight.  If you feel you cannot win the battle, maybe you are sick or just don’t have the right frame of mind, do anything you can to avoid the battlefield.  But there is another option.  Make the enemy see the cost of doing battle is too high.  I have often explained that if they were looking for a fight I would be happy to give them one.  They would say something like, “I’m gonna kick your ass”. I would use humor to difuse the fight and say I wouldn’t turn around for them to get at my ass.   “I’ll beat your ass”, “I turn around and you;ll beat my meat instead.”   This is an opportunity to run or get the jump on them.  If they are insistant and you don’t want to do battle, remind them of the cost of the battle.   Tell them that though them may indeed beat the crap out of you, they will get hurt doing it.  The law is always a great deterent.  Let them know you are not disputing the fact that they can win , but you are not going to just stand there either.   Remind them that you were just minding your business and they are not being fare.  Give them the opportunity to be the bigger person and walk away.   In this way you were the leader but you didn’t force the matter of peace on them, you let them make a decision which allowed them to feel like they won.  In essence you have won by making them back down.   You have their respect and you don’t have to look over your shoulder.  Remember that when you do battle you must look for enemy from that time on wherever you go and watch over your loved ones.  The enemy will get back at you however he can.  If he feels he cannot attack you he will attack what you love.

Neutral people
Everyone is either the enemy or an ally.  No one is neutral.  It is wise to keep alliances with those who seem to be neutral.  When the day comes to choose sides the so called neutral will often make a great ally that no one would suspect.  How do we make them our ally without them knowing it.  The world is greedy and no one does anything that doesn’t benefit them thru ego, comfort, or riches.  A neutral person is in that position because he does not depend on anyone for his needs.  He most likely has a secure job and is comfortable in life.  Neutral people often have little drive to do anything in life.  They are very regimented in their routine.  They  have a set regiment of doing a certain thing or their regiment may be not doing anything and never taking responsibility.  Whatever the case they do not strive to be better.  They do not take risks.  They are not willing to standup for anything.  These are the easiest people to make alliances with if you can find something that they want.  People will take sides when they are in danger of losing what they value.  Some value petty things such as the right to wear business attire though their position does not warrant it.  It makes them feel they have authority.  Some value the right to have their voice heard even though they have no wish to be obeyed.  In these cases you must afford the neutral an easy answer as they will not search for it.  Neutrals are not concerned with their rights, they are concerned with security in their lives.  They will give up the right in order to satisfy their want. Example. The neutral would give up their voice in salary negotiations if their jobs were made easier in one simple step.  Negotiations take to much time and energy.  You can win them over by showing them a simple advantage if they be come your ally. However , you must understand that just as you won them over easily they will turn against you in the same manner.  Neutrals cannot be given the power to hurt you.  They are not loyal.

A good leader lets the follower make the choice.
A free follower will give his life willingly for his leader, a forced follower will take the life of his leader and force other to follow his corrupt ways.
A leader is not someone who forces the subject to follow.  A good leader shows the subject that he has the knowledge and experience to produce the outcome that is sought after.  A leader shows his subject that he has done everything that he will ask of his follower.  He has been the follower and has made mistakes and now he can impart that wisdom on his follower and protect him from the same.  A leader keeps his follower by showing him what he wants and enabling him to obtain is by following the leader.  A loyal follower makes his own decision to follow.
Someone who is forced to do a deed cannot ever be trusted.  They will work hard and do your bidding as long as they are trapped but given the opportunity to kill the employer and run they will at the first chance.  The way to have a loyal friend, employee, or mate is not to force them into submission but show them the advantage of doing it your way.  But there is a catch.  In order for you to do this you must first attain the knowledge and experience that will make you  wise leader.  You cannot keep someone’s loyalty if you constantly hurt them.  You must allow them to make little mistakes with little consequences to show them that they should have listened to you.  You must do this time and time again to gain credibility.  The first time you are right it was a 50/50 chance. The next time the odds are more in your favor and so on until you can make the case the most of the decisions they make are wrong and most of your are right.  It is more logical to do it your way as you have proven to be more knowledgeable.  You can only do this in the area that you have expertise in.  you must have the courage to admit when you do not.  If you insist and are wrong, you will lose your credibility.  As the leader you must also know when to be the follower and seek the expertise of your partner.  This example will show the other person that you are not trying to be their ruler, but their partner.  They must accept the fact that you have more knowledge.

For instance, a teacher goes to school at a certain time, teaches a certain subject for his career, abides by certain rules, and is basically in a very tiny world.  He accepts this and sees his life as very simple and finds happiness in little things like getting out early.  The teacher is accustomed to meetings and voting on decisions.  He would not do anything to rock the boat.  A professional is similar in that they have to answer to someone. A professional is usually concerned with appearance and vanity is the weakness.  In these cases all you need is something that the neutral sees as an asset that he does not have to work for or take sides.  Example:  they can get a raise for doing the same job.  How do you make them your ally.  Suppose you are the principal.  You want the teacher to take on extra duties.  If you tell them they are working harder for the same pay there will be an uprising. If you tell them that you want to give them a raise but are not sure the board will be in favor, you need something to show as a worth for giving the raise.  You tell him that his job will not change and he will have the same duties except that you really need something to validate the raise.   You then bring up that the budget is being cut and the janitor is leaving.  How can you give him a raise with a cut budget?  Who will sweep the floors.  You must make the teacher come up with the solution.  It must be his idea.  After you show them the answer you let them make the final decision.  They will feel like the conquerer and work willingly.  If you make them do it against their will they can not be trusted.

In the matter of gaining trust
Never miss an opportunity to save someone from disaster and remind them that you are one of the very few that would help them.
You must open yourself up to hurt and loss to see if you can trust someone.  You must lay your head on the chopping block and hand your sword over willingly to your socalled friend.  He may very well chop your head off.  You must test your friends on things that will not destroy you if they are not honorable.  Most times people are our friends for they can gain.  They want protection and hang around the big bully.  They want money and hang with the rich guy.  Whatever your assets, keep them secret so you will know who is your friend and who is just an agent of greed.   After extending your head ask them to do the same on some occasion and see if they do.  If they merely lay there head down but do not surrender their sword they cannot be trusted.

KNOWING WHEN THE ENEMY IS ABOUT TO STRIKE
Certain automatic responses of the body cannot be controlled at all and some can be with training.  When engaging in battle we must make sure of several things.  First we must make sure we are willing to step on to the battlefield and engage in the battle.  Second we must be absolutely sure we are willing to go the distance and fight the whole fight.  Remember that just because you win today does not mean you will not be called onto another field tomorrow and possible be killed in that battle.  Third we must be willing to accept the losses we may incur.   Remember that by engaging in any act that will upset the enemy, you risk your life.  Flipping someone off may seem harmless or yelling at someone, but remember that you just might do it to the wrong person at the wrong time.  The enemy may be at the peak of readiness for battle and you are not.  The enemy may be looking for a battle and have superior fitness and rage.  This brings us to the final thing to consider.  Do you really have to step onto the battle field or can you make the enemy see the cost of battle is too high or that they are wrong.  A peaceful resolve should always be the primary objective, however this is not always possible.  Once you have determined that the battle is imminent and unavoidable, you must know when the enemy is going to strike and interrupt his plan before he knows what it is himself.  This skill, or more appropriately, this sense can only be cultivated by many hours of meditation and mudra.  You must develop the internal chi.  This takes a long time.  The dedication it requires and the self discipline is such that only about one in one million will ever develop this to any degree.  Yes we all get premonitions and feel our sixth sense occasionally but the trick is to use it at will and live with it constantly guiding us.  If you look for it , you will never find it.  In battle you cannot look at the enemy, you must feel them.  You must foresee what he will do.  This is accomplished not only by meditation, but by experience.  It is important to study all arts in depth.  You don’t have to learn them but you must know the enemy intimately.  This is only accomplished by living in the enemy’s world.  How can you beat the Karate student if you don’t study his art? You must get in close and try to take this enemy down.  He may know what to do but generally Karate is an outside fight.  You don’t want to do the same with a grappler and so on.  Before you can sense the enemy you must understand what the enemy is capable of.  This is why I train my students in private.  No one sees what we do and we study the arts of the enemy.  The enemy cannot know what battle field we will take them to but we are fine on their battlefield if we must fight there.  Once you have gained a good working knowledge of many different arts and know their concepts,  you can now start to use your sixth sense.  You cannot engage the enemy with fear, anxiety, rage, or any emotion.  You mind must be as calm as a mirrored lake and your spirit must be one of mercy.  If you seek to destroy the enemy you will miss opportunities and be destroyed.  You cannot be over anxious or you will be baited and trapped.  Once you have controlled your emotions and give up your intent you will see the enemy’s intent.  Physical signs are flaring nostrils, clenching fists, overt movement, flushed cheeks, and so on.  These things tell you that the enemy is angry.  But how do you know what he will do?   You must be a student of human nature and biophysics.  For instance, consider which side of the body the most weight is on, their stance {are they pulling at their pants like a kicker or leaning in like a boxer, or hunched over like a grappler}, and other involuntary signs.  This is the beginning of knowing what the enemy will do.  The eyes will tell all. The enemy will have a twitch in his eyes. He will be looking back and forth from your right eye to the left.  Watch his pupils for movement.  The pupil with get large and small when he feels certain emotions.  This is for you to experiment with and figure out.  The eyes will stop moving a fraction of a second before the body moves.  The brain has been trying to make a decision and when it finally makes the choice the eyes freeze.  At this moment you must feel or sense that the enemy is about to strike.  Your reaction will seem like you were the first to move.  You will act before the enemy.  You have not acted first, you have reacted but in time and space is now that of another world.  You did not react to a physical stimuli but to a sense.  With a clear calm mind free from evil, you must look upon your enemy with pity.  After all he does not know how close he is to death or permanent disfigurement. You must pity him for his lack of vision and knowledge.  With this attitude of empathy and mercy, you will not cloud yourself and be able to meet the enemy with just the right amount of force.   This is the path of the true warrior.  It is easy to fight and hurt someone.  Only the very unskilled fight and hope for an outcome that will be acceptable to them.  A true warrior with exceptional skill does not wish such things as a brutal end.  His goal is to do what is necessary. He does not fight, he does not assert himself with aggression.  He just lets go and his body does what it has been trained to do.  He does not derive satisfaction, sadness, nor pleasure from the battle.  It is just a reaction.  The warrior does not strike down his enemy.  The warrior tries to resolve the incident. It is the enemy that brings the destruction upon himself.  It is the consequence of his action.  He is the one who brings about the reaction of the warrior.

HOW CHI WORKS
In order to develop your internal energy you must let go of science, religion, and politics of society.  When you strive to learn something new , you must adopt the beliefs and attitude of the teacher.  You must be able to maintain your religious beliefs without letting it interfere with your learning.  You cannot say that there is no internal energy that makes you alive, it is only God.  You may believe this but you will never learn if you close your mind.  I am very dedicated to my religion.  I believe God makes me alive but how does God give life.  Let’s say that God has put this thing called chi in us.  Science can explain many things and as technology advances, many aspects of the supernatural are being solidified with science.  We always heard about this mystical energy but no one could actually touch it.  Now with computers we can see images of the electromagnetic field that surrounds all living things.  Certain parlor tricks have been used by magicians for centuries.  It is ignorance that makes it mystical.  Some things cannot be explained.  If we are to learn the ways of eastern medicine we must learn they way they teach it.  After you learn it that way you can cross reference it with western medicine and see what you come up with.  I have studied the Eastern first and then tried to explain it with western methods.  Most of the time you can but it takes a lot of research.  Many things cannot be explained.  Did the Indian do the rain dance and it rained or did the Indian see the storm cloud and then do the rain dance.
Let’s look at chi as a driving force.  It is the energy like electricity that makes the computer {our mind} run.  Our body follows the direction of our brain.  Our brain is the computer that makes the programs for the body to follow.  Our hearts beat with out us knowing it, we breathe, we walk, we sleep.  All these things are automatic.  We can learn and then thru practice we no longer have to think about it.  Ok , old news.  But what makes us react like we do?  We are programmed to get mad or sad, to reason or lash out.  We call it traits or characteristics of humans, or behavior.  This behavior is regulated by our brain and body.  Let’s go deeper.  You must be able to get out of your body.  You must be able to stand beside yourself in another dimension.  The chi is in you but not in your physical body.  It is not in your brain.  It is in your spirit.  The chi directs the body and brain.  The chi is faster than thought.  It is more powerful than anything we can imagine.  It allows us to do what ever we accept we can do within reason.  Don’t stand in front of a truck and think you can stop it. That’s stupid.  Chi is also derived from intelligence.  Thru practice of tai chi and meditation you reprogram your entire being.  You must practice your moves and your way of thinking in another dimension.  Time and space no longer exist in the context that we do.  It’s like the puppet act.  We see a puppet that comes to life and seems to have a life of its own.  It seems to think and reason and actually live.  But the puppet is only seemingly alive due to the person who is giving it life, yeah the guy with his hand up its butt.  So lets look at chi like that hand.  Not up your butt but in your subconscious.  The hand directs the puppet, the puppet is mechanically worked and the rest just happens.  The chi directs the mind, whether is perceived as a conscious thought and action or not noticed as a subconscious thought or action.  The brain in turn takes over and directs the body.  In order for this to come together you must cultivate the chi.  The chi is like a spirit that is sleeping in your body and in your spirit.  It does not know what to do.  Like a computer it doesn’t have any knowledge or capability until it is programmed.  A computer can do a simple task such as math due to a program. The computer can do much more complicated tasks as long as it is programmed but how much more time and work is it to program it to do that task.  You see you have to be willing to put the time in to allow the chi to grow and learn.  You can’t just load the program into yourself by taking a class in tai chi.  It must be done in the authentic temple style which is almost non existent now.  I have had the great fortune to learn this and it is the true power in the battle.  You program your chi to do a technique by doing the technique over and over very slowly and with near perfection.  You can’t practice wrong or the chi will learn wrong and tell the brain and the body the wrong thing.  you must let the chi know feelings of love and empathy.  You must practice breathing exercises so the chi can flow.  The chi circulates in the body thru the blood and oxygen.  We can make many corrolations to western medicine here.  The blood is rich in oxygen which promotes good circulation.  The blood heals and so on.  Breathing exercises promote this.  Thru the breathe control you can work your heart and lower your cholesterol.  Tai chi has been clinically proven in recent years to be a great source of exercise but also a way to slow the aging process and strengthen the immune system and increase bone density.  Something is happening, lets call it chi.  When you learn to direct your chi, your hits become very powerful yet look like you hardly moved.  Every thing is now concealed.  Strict methods of body movement must be learned.  When you learn to move your whole body in unison the chi circulates.  You cannot learn this with an angry confused mind.  As your confidence grows so will your ability to control your chi.
After many years of practice, you will react before you are aware that you are reacting.  You will feel someone near you before you see them.  This is due to the body and brain learning to be sensitive to the electromagnetic field around you.  So lets say that the field is the chi around you.  The chi knows someone is near and directs the brain to move the body in a certain way.  That way is whatever you have trained for.  You must be careful not to train to fight but to be aware and just react to stimuli.  You don’t want to be a paranoid jerk hitting everyone who comes around you.  You react with a calm and merciful manner.  If your enemy attacks you will be there to intercept the attack before the enemy moves.  If he is already moving the chi will move you out of the attack path before you know what happened.  My students have told me of experiences such as this.  One student told me he was standing outside his class room talking to his friend when suddenly he was holding a pencil and had moved in a way that we train.  He stated he didn’t know what had happened, it was like his brain was trying to catch up.  He quickly realized he was holding the pencil because he blocked it.  The kid who he took the pencil from said he didn’t mean it and walked away.  My students friend told him “that was so cool”.  He asked what was so cool and his friend stated that the other kid had tried to stab him with the pencil in an overhand strike.  My student stated he didn’t really know it until his friend filled him in. He didn’t know he was being attacked, he didn’t know he reacted.  That’s what he said but I explained that he didn’t know it consciously, but the chi took over and directed his entire being.  You must buy into it to learn it.  It takes years and much discipline.  We are a lazy country that buys everything.  Look at  all the little 4 year old black belts running around.  How many people do you know with a black belt?  It seems everyone has one and doesn’t know the first thing about what they are to be experts at.  They may know how to fight, they may not, but what very few will ever know is how to live.

THE TEACHER

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4/19/04
A good teacher is someone who teaches not only the subject that is being studied but life lessons.  He tells his student of his own shortcomings with a humility that tells the student the teacher is human and has made mistakes.  The teacher tells the student how his decisions affected his life in good and bad ways.  He allows the student to see him in a fragile and fallible way.  He must allow the student every opportunity to question him and answer with complete honesty as to allow the student to form his own opinions.  A teacher must open his heart to his students and allow them to hurt him time and time again.  I know that every student I open my heart to will hurt me.  I know they will betray me in some way.  I know that the knowledge I give them will not be used as I wish it would be.  I know I do not gain their respect when I show my tender vulnerable side and let them know they have hurt me.  I know they would rather see a fighter of unbeatable strength that crushes his foes with a swift and furious wrath of anger.  I know I must not show them this.  I must show them a warrior who knowingly refuses the former for the sake of their edification.  I know I must show them that I will stand before them giving my knowledge and experience even though I know the price I will pay for my dedication.  I told my student I know he will hurt me, I know he will betray me.  I know I will not find a loyal one in the lot.  Yet how can I close my heart and my spirit to him and still teach him?  I told him to look beyond the fighting and see the principles of life.  I told him not to set goals in any time frame but to live life taking care of  what he should as soon as possible.  I told him not to say “there is no excuse for my actions” for there are good excuses for not fulfilling tasks.  These excuses can be of sound moral character if the task was put off to help someone or for a greater good.  Only excuses of laziness and irresponsibility are worthless.  However , in order for an excuse of morality to be worthy of  putting the task off, the teacher must truly care about the student and not put his own feelings and personal gain ahead of the student.  A teacher must be self sacrificing in many ways. HOWEVER, the student must not use excuses as a crutch.  They are not to be used to excuse every failing. I told my student even though I know I will suffer for my efforts, my commitment to help him and the satisfaction I get from it will outweigh my pain.  The payoff is that the student becomes a teacher himself and carry on the work I have started.  Only thru this dedication to study can a teacher himself gain the knowledge that he needs to help the student.  Only thru the quest for knowledge can a teacher show the student where to look.   If the teacher cannot find the knowledge how can he direct the student.?  Only in the final acceptance of rejection can we strive to be accepted.  Only in the realization of the students progress in his own humanity can we realize our own growth in our humanity.  Only in the humble act of giving can we hope to receive.  Only in the unselfish way we teach our students can we gain the knowledge and strength we need to go on.  Teaching must be the gift, the reward, the reason, and the “way” …. This is why we have students.  Only thru the acceptance of death can we live.

1/14/2011

Though I still value this creed I wrote  7 years ago.  I have endured betrayal in some fashion by every student except my one Sempai.   Now, 7 years later, I see that this way of teaching is only valuable if you have a student that will “see” the way.  When they don’t change, the only path is out the door.   Now I am faced with another senior leaving.   He once was everything to me as the 2 before him were.   Being older than me, I was sure he would not betray me in friendship and loyalty as the younger ones did.   But now in the end,  after he is with me almost 5 years,  there is much I cannot forgive.   When I cried out for his friendship he was not there,  when he was the only one who could help me, he was not there.  Why is it that they realize their failings after it is too late to repair them.   He would have owned me thru loyalty and gained all my knowledge if only he had picked up the phone when I had no one else to talk to.

This is just an ongoing story.   I must accept that I will never find a successor.  I will never find the ‘one’ to pass the okuden to.    Martial arts and all it once stood for is no longer.   Now it is just a pass time and everyone feels superiority.

The worst punishment is walking the path only to find it lead no where.    I have walked it alone and when I am too tired to walk any further,  I will sit there isolated.   No successor to continue on.    Like a path in the woods that was not traveled.  No one will know I was there,  no one will care,  the plants will grow and conceal my path.   Some day my bones will be found and they will think< “what loser came out here on his own – ”   no escaping destiny.

THE VALUE OF CONSEQUENCES VS.REWARD & PUNISHMENT

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PUNISHMENTS AND REWARDS VS. CONSEQUENCES

A good teacher must be able to make the student make the right decisions on his own.  A choice that is given is much more valuable than a demand to do the right thing.  If you tell the student to do something and he does, he is most likely doing it just because you told him to.  If he does not fulfill your wish, what will you do to teach him?  The key is to let the student make the decision.  You must show the student that his decision will affect his entire life.  Any decision will affect our path in life.  The smallest detail may make the greatest difference.  The lesson must not be clouded with one’s personal desires.  A good teacher must look at the situation from every viewpoint: his own, that of the student, and most importantly, from that of a third party with no self serving intentions to steer the outcome.  For example, suppose you want a student to test by a certain date.  In order for this to happen the student must sacrifice many things to acquire the knowledge and technique required to successfully pass the test.  You must not bait the student with rewards or threaten him with punishments, but instead you must explain the consequences of his actions.  If he tests by the date he will receive a new status in class, be closer to his black belt, have more authority, and so on.  If he fails to test by the date he will be looked at in a different light.  He will be seen as lazy and not willing to sacrifice, which will make the teacher not willing to give so unselfishly.  Neither is a punishment or reward, merely a consequence of his actions.  This must be explained to the student so he can make his own path.  It must be understood that once our paths are chosen they cannot be changed. [Does this change your idea here?  Do you think this is true?]  The student will learn a valuable lesson either way with this method.  If he succeeds in the test he will see the value of study and sacrifice, which will aid him in his life.  He will adopt the lesson of setting priorities, which will make him a valuable employee and a good mate and parent.  He will instill these things in others.  If he fails he will see that his lack of commitment has hurt him and he can never return to the beginning of the path and choose another way.  Then you must explain to him that he must never make the same mistake again.  He should be made to walk away with shame but with the drive to never fail again.  He must not be ashamed to tell others of his shortcoming so that they will not suffer his fate.  We as teachers must be willing to humble ourselves and tell our students of our failures so that they may learn and not make the same mistakes.  In turn if the student succeeds we must praise him [[[and tell him of the path that he would be on if he had failed.  Succeeding is important for the student but true success cannot be attained until we make known what would have happened if success had not been achieved.  Only then will the student see the value of his choice which may then serve as a lesson for life and not just a stroke of luck.  We must explore with our students what would have happened if….  They must know what path will lead where.  It is not enough to just succeed.  We must teach them also how they would have failed and what consequence they would have suffered.  ]]]

[[[ This part sounds like a lesson on the power of failure.  Its almost sounds like success has no power in itself – you’ve got to scare the student with what might have been.  The underlying message would be : “Ok, you escaped that time, but every time you try is another chance to get screwed.”  How long will it take the student to say “To Hell with hearing about failure hanging over my head all the time.” I mean really : “It is not enough just to succeed”…Yeah it is!]]]

THE 3 PEOPLE THAT SOLVE OUR PROBLEMS- EMOTIONS BLIND US

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EMOTION BLINDS US FROM THE FACTS IN DECISION MAKING
A PROBLEM ALWAYS INVOLVES THREE PEOPLE

When people criticize us or engage in arguments, they are not really attacking us. They are merely attempting to justify their own failure.  They cannot acknowledge your success or being right in a matter, for it will inevitably make them admit their own flaws.

Arguments are rarely about what they seem to be about.  Most often disagreements arise out of pure emotion.  We spend our entire lives avoiding pain, death, and anything we find hard or distasteful.  If we look at a problem from 3 different points of view, we will find that most of the reasons we give for our actions are not factual, rather emotional. What we consider to be factual is based on personal gain or loss.  The key is to then look at the problem from a disinterested 3rd person point of view with no interest of gain or loss.  Once you attain a true state of neutrality we can then discover the true root of the problem.  The problem is rarely what it seems.  Arguments arise over issues that have nothing to due with the root problem.  Because the root problem has not been dealt with and a resolution has not been made, little things quickly become large unsolvable matters.

The key in ending disputes before they become too large is to deal with them immediately with an open and factual mind.  Emotion cannot play a role in problem solving.  The old saying “those are just little things” is only true in one sense that they may indeed be little things.  However it is all those little things that are left unresolved that make up big things.  The little matters that have hurt us emotionally grow into problems of great magnitude with no apparent reasoning.  Soon arguments about the most stupid and trivial matters are dominating the relationship, whether it be business or personal, and no resolve is possible.  You must be able to fully understand your emotions and know why you feel the way you do.  You must not rely on ego to mask your pain.  If you are hurt or feel like a failure, you must let the other party know why.  They must be open to understanding your reason and not dismiss your emotion as a silly immaturity.
Example:  you take exceptional care of your vehicle, polishing it weekly with the utmost attention to detail.  You treat all the molding, even clean under the vehicle and the inside of the rims.  Everyone tells you that your efforts are silly.  After all it’s just a vehicle.  It’s only function is to get you from one place to another.  You must immediately understand that your affection for your vehicle goes against the grain of society.  People are lazy and the appearance of their vehicle has little or no importance.  To you, however, it is a priority.  You cannot argue about why you take such good care of your vehicle.  You are not going to change anyone.  Why would you argue?  You would argue because they are not just telling you their point of view, they are in essence attacking you.  The argument here would not really be about your anal tactics of keeping your vehicle clean and polished.  They do not take care of their vehicle for reasons other than what they will admit. They are defending their position.  They are not able to admit to themselves why they do not take the same painstaking tasks as you do.  They are not criticizing your efforts, they are attempting to defend themselves against an emotion that they have not dealt with.  Perhaps they are just lazy and have no pride or maybe their efforts in the past to keep their vehicle clean were not rewarded.  Your reasons are greater than just pride.  Perhaps you have worked so hard and sacrificed so much in order to purchase your vehicle that is means much more to you than just an object of functional transportation.  You see all the work and suffering you went thru to have that vehicle and now have an emotional attachment to it.  Your adversary, on the other hand, trades his vehicle in every 2-3 years and is convinced that they will always have a car payment. It’s just a fact of life.  They are prepared to make this payment for the convenience of trading in their car and giving the headaches of repairs to someone else. Perhaps what they are really avoiding is the acceptance of their lack of mechanical knowledge.  They know that if the car should break, they will be at the mercy of a mechanic and that in some way makes them feel very insecure and vulnerable.  They will never understand what you feel.  If you can understand this and accept that you care for your vehicle out of ego and deeper reasons, it will be easy for you to shrug off their comments.  You can explain to them why you take such good care of your vehicle in other ways than just arguing your point.  This technique will be especially useful in relationships.  Instead of arguing with our business partner or spouse about emotional reasons, you will be able to explain why you feel they way you do.  Once you expose the root problem, a resolution is often very easy as long as both sides are free from emotion.

The following will be and attempt to explain in detail the importance of discarding emotions from problems.

When we have a problem we most often overlook the true root of the problem and avoid a resolution.  We use reasoning philosophies as a defense to our laziness. We may justify our actions or lack of actions stating that the ends justify the means.  Example: you lie to a loved one to save their feeling.  You know lying is wrong but the ends of a loved one not being hurt by your words justifies the means or you cannot budget yourself so you justify your spending habits stating that your kids should know the value of a dollar and should make their own life, why should you be deprived of anything, you payed your dues.   Or the opposite, the means justifies the ends.  Example: you need a job to support your family and lie on your application.  If you don’t lie you won’t get the job. Though you know lying is wrong the ends of getting the job and supporting your family will justify the means of how you get the job.  And finally we satisfice.  Example: we state that we have found the best or won’t settle for anything but the best.  In reality we cannot find the best and and chose the best of what is available to us at the time secretly knowing that we would not have made this choice if something better was available.  Example:  you chose a mate that is a good provider and trustworthy but is lacking in physical features.  You state that looks are not important and you would rather have a mate that provides for you instead of lazy “good looking” mate.   Your honest feeling is that you would want a mate that has all the physical features that you find attractive, be successful, possess all the right virtues and so, but because that is not available you settle for the “best” of what you have to choose from.
Of course most of our bad decisions are made purely out of laziness.  An example would be that your front door is becoming harder and harder to open eventually deteriorating to the point that it no longer will open with out force and is now a security risk due to its degraded structural integrity.  The solution may seem obvious that the door must be repaired or replaced, however, once you consider the cost and inconvenience you decide to leave it as it is and use the side door.  The reasons we may use to support our decision may be the cost is too great, the time needed for the repairs is not available, or the money and time must be used for more important thing.  Usually the things we give president to will give us joy and make things easier, once again showing our decisions are usually based on laziness.  Maybe it is just as easy to use the side door as it was to use the front door.  The facts are, however, that the door is broken, it poses a security risk due to its lack of structural integrity, it cannot be used for escape in an emergency, and so on.  We may not consider these reasons as this does not justify our laziness.
One of the largest and most dangerous failings in making a decision or the cause of a disagreement is emotion.  In our door example we can say that the emotion of spending the money on a door rather than on something pleasurable has made the decision for us. All of the reasons not to fix the door are emotional not factual.  There are few gray areas in right and wrong.  They are clouded only by emotion. Our lives are dictated by emotion.  Emotion is rarely right and most often steers us down the wrong path.  Let’s explore problems in a relationship.  One partner is angry over something.  The other partner just cannot understand why this is such a big deal.  Example: a wife would ask the husband what time he will be ready to go to her parents’ house for Sunday dinner.  He is angered and answers with a snappy “I’ll be ready when I’m ready, leave me alone”.  In this instance we can say the husband is clearly wrong.  She did not ask anything unreasonable.  The emotion sparking this argument may be that she has a habit of asking him when he will be ready continually without acknowledging his answer.  Maybe she is constantly nagging him to be ready at a certain time and then she keeps him waiting for an extra 45 minutes because she cannot be punctual. Let’s just say for this example that he would rather watch the Sunday game rather than spend what he would call a very boring afternoon with her parents who do not like him anyway.  On the other hand, she cannot wait to get to her parents house.  Her emotions are of happy anticipation.  She loves talking with her parents, doing a few chores for them which have become difficult in their senior years, and catching up on family gossip.  Now let’s look at this from a purely factual point of view without any emotion.  Her question of when he would be ready to leave was not unreasonable.  If he knew they had a commitment to be somewhere he should have taken the responsibility to be ready at a reasonable time and be able to give her an answer.  Factually he is totally wrong for his response.  Emotionally, however, he may be right.  Now let’s look at this example from the 3rd person.  No emotion or possibility of gain or loss.  From this point of view we can dismiss the importance of the husband attending the meal at her parents.  He does not want to go and should not have to.  If you make the argument he should do it for her, you are using emotion.  That is a view based on a personal belief.  You may be of the opinion the husband should sacrifice his sports for her happiness, after all marriage is about sacrifice.  Turn that around, maybe she should sacrifice her parents for his sports.  Both of these are emotional decisions taking into consideration the “right and wrong” of society and etiquette.  The facts are, from an uninvolved 3rd party with nothing to gain or lose {ie. Emotion} that neither should be made to sacrifice what they enjoy.  Now this problem involves more.  It goes back to emotion.  How much do they care about each other and what are they willing to do for each other.  At this point you have probably formed your own opinion of who is right and what should be the resolution.  You are basing this on your personal views which are a product of your emotion.  This problem has a much deeper root.  This argument is not about watching sports or visiting her parents.  It has an emotional root which will continue to cause disruption unless the root is destroyed.  The husband is most likely using the game as an excuse to avoid some unhappiness {emotion} which he will incur at the in laws.  She is oblivious to his needs and pain.  There is a lack of understanding of what the real problem is.  Instead she will accuse him of not caring about her feelings and not respecting her.  He will accuse her of being too demanding stating that this was his only personal time and she should be considerate of him.  The resolutions they come up with will never work because they have not discovered the “emotion” that caused this problem.
In order for us to see a problem for what it really is we must look at it from 3 points of view.  The first must be from an emotional point of view.  Ask yourself or someone else why you or they have these feelings.  Remember feelings are emotional.  80-90 % of these reasons will be “emotional”.   Next answer the same question with purely factual statements.  You will see that these facts are based on personal gain or loss.  For example, the emotional reasons the husband can give would be he only has Sunday to relax, he doesn’t like his in laws, he finds it boring, and so on.  These are his likes and dislikes, his emotions.  His facts would be that if he doesn’t have some personal time he will not function at work risking their failure to pay bills and losing possessions. Objects he enjoys having.  A personal gain. If he goes to the in laws he will not have time to cut the lawn, a loss of opportunity causing him to give up another portion of time to do what he could have done instead of visiting her parents.  The facts stated usually go back to an emotion, but this time they are based on personal gain or loss.  Finally we must look at the problem from an uninterested 3rd party.  Someone with nothing to gain or lose.  Now you will find facts that are not tied to any one side.  We could say that he should take time to visit his in laws, however if it is that painful to him, he shouldn’t have to suffer.  If this is his only time to relax she should be supportive.  Now that we have examined all the reasoning behind both sides, the question remains why is he so opposed to visiting his in laws and why is she so set on going? Example: during her childhood she was never home and was always getting in trouble.  She neglected her parents and caused them many problems due to her lack of good judgment and self control.  Now she feels guilty and is trying to compensate her negligence by visiting her parents often and trying to do what she failed to do when she was living at home.  His reasons for not going are not in any way tied to watching a game or relaxing.  Every time he goes there they continually tell him how he should act and give unwanted advice about his personal life and his actions as a husband.
Most often arguments arise out of emotion and continue without resolution because emotions are used as defenses of the actions causing the problem.  By looking at a problem from these 3 points of view, you do not need a mediator or a counselor.  The hard part it to truly divorce yourself from your emotions, disregard your personal gain and loss, and actually be neutral about the matter. This takes a lot of practice and a strong sense of justice.  You must be able to accept that you are indeed totally wrong and acknowledge your failure. In doing this you must also be willing to change immediately.  If the husband had told his wife the real reason he wanted to stay home, she should have the courage to either insist her parents immediately stop their behavior or allow him to stay home.

Example: your friend who takes such good care of his vehicle asks you not to lean on it.  You should not defend your position of why you don’t feel the same about your car and lecture him about why his feelings are wrong.  You should simply abide by his wish.  It’s not your vehicle, you have nothing to gain or lose by leaning on it, there is no tangible asset you gain or lose, there is no monetary gain or loss.  If someone will not abide by your request, you are left with only 2 options. Either sacrifice your views and accept what will make you angry or distance yourself from that person.

Many times we must look into the future and see what may become a problem.  Knowing that we are not dealing with reasonable people we must avoid the matter that will surely turn into an argument.  Example:  you know your friend will definitely lean all over your car and this will upset you.  When you both walk into the parking lot, be a leader and walk to his car leaving yours at a safe distance.  Let him lean and slide all over his.  Example:  you know that every time you have your parents over, all you hear is what you are doing wrong and how you should change your habits.  Society says you should be tolerant of your parents.  After all they ARE your parents.  Take the emotion out of that.  The emotional tie of parenthood is overshadowing their overbearing ways.  There will soon be arguments about how the toilet paper should be put on and why you leave fans running when you are not in the room.  The root problem must be addressed.  You ask your parents to stop their behavior stating the consequences of their actions.  Option one is they keep their comments to themselves and accept that you will run your house hold as you see fit.  They must understand that they are not trying to change you but are really defending their actions.  Try to discover why they feel the need to give this unwanted advice knowing that they will cause chaos.  Option 2 is not to have them over any more.  Go to a restaurant or a neutral meeting ground since they will not change.

THROWING THE CHILD INTO THE WELL

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THROWING THE CHILD INTO THE WELL

Sometimes as teachers we must make our students suffer in order to teach them a lesson.  Nothing that is not suffered, sacrificed, and worked for is valued.  If we merely tell our students what they are to learn, and fail to show them through trial and error, they will not learn.  We must allow them to experience the principles that will serve them in life, not just state those principles. We must give them the outline for them to work from.  How can they do what is right if they do not know what is right?  In the case of lessons, we must first tell the student what is right.  We then must take the time to explain why we think it is right.  We then must explain what the consequence will be if they do not do what is right.  We must tell them of an example in our own life when we did the right thing as it applies to our lesson and how we benefited from it.  We must also provide an example of how we failed to do the right thing and what consequence we suffered for our failure.  We should humble ourselves in this manner to show them we are human.  We cannot make ourselves into a god-like figure that intimidates them.  Finally we must give them a solution to work with when they fail.  We must tell them that we want them to succeed, but understand that most lessons are learned by failing and suffering for the mistake.  We must lay out a clear path for them to follow if they fail.   Example.  Do not just tell your student to be truthful.  He will only have an abstract concept of what truth is and how he should behave in regard to it, but he will not know why.  We should tell our students that they should be truthful, and then test them by giving them a reason to be dishonest about something.  For example, leave some information that they wanted lying in the open after class.  Knowing that they have asked for this information and that you have told them they are not ready for it, you have already told them what to do if they should find this information.  Give the student a task to perform after class when everyone else has left.  Leave the student alone and see if he is honest and tells you that you have carelessly left this information out in the open, or see if it disappears.  This test can be with money or anything that you know the student really wants.  You can even have another student tell this student something in confidence that you have told the class you should know about.  Example: you tell the class no one is allowed to train outside of the dojo.  You have established a rule.  You tell the class you must know if anyone is doing this and explain the disrespect it shows.  You explain that if anyone has knowledge of someone doing this they should tell you, as their loyalty is to the teacher first.  The test is another student who is close to the student in question will inform him that he is not really happy in class and has interviewed other schools.  Will the student being tested come to you with this knowledge, or keep it to himself? If he passes the test and tell you , you must praise him and tell him of your test.  It will instill in him a sense of great accomplishment.  You must tell him why you have tested him and show him that as a consequence of his honesty and loyalty he will now be given information or advanced training.  The lesson is that you wanted to give him more but had to be sure of what his intentions were.  Now that he has proven himself he will be a better student with more skill and knowledge.  This he can apply to his life. He must also not fear telling you anything.  As a teacher you must be able to keep his confidence that you will not let him suffer in any way for his honesty and loyalty.  If he fails the test he will be denied training.  You will let him do repetitious moves and deny him knowledge.  At some point you will have a talk with this student and ask how he is doing and what he thinks of class.  He should express to you his dissatisfaction.  This will allow you to tell him why he has been dissatisfied.  It was a consequence of his actions.  Having taken the time to tell the student what he should do, if he fails a test, you now wait until he rectifies his failure.  In this example the student should tell the teacher he now realizes that he was wrong in withholding knowledge the teacher asked for, or for taking information that the teacher has told him he was not ready to receive, or for taking money he found, or whatever your test was.  The student has been told what to do to gain the teachers good favor again and should do it.  To continue with this example, the student should humble himself to the teacher and apologize.  We must ask the student why he failed the test.  We must let the student explain it to himself.  We are only there for him to talk to, but he is listening also to everything he says.  He will in essence tell himself why he failed.  We then will ask what the student thinks he should do to rectify the situation.  After listening very attentively and giving the student every opportunity to say all he wants to, ask if he has anything else to say.  The student must be made to feel that he has been given every chance to state all he wanted to.  Only this consideration will allow the student to empty himself of excuses and be receptive to our advice and learn.  We then will tell the student how disappointed we are and give examples of what the student has given up by his actions.  In this case we tell the student that we no longer want to show the student advanced methods or take time to groom him in the same manner we once did.  We must explain that we care deeply for the student and want him to be what he once was to us.  We must make the student feel we care about him and his future or he will not learn.  We cannot let the student lose hope, but rather must dangle a prize in front of him to give him the drive to rectify his actions.  We must lay out a path of what we will expect in the future, a timeline of penalty {such as, “For the next 4 months you will not be taught anything new, I will look for you to spend your time helping other students and prove that you are not selfish and really care about others.   When I see that you have proven yourself I will start teaching you again.”}, and tell them exactly where they will stand if they fail again or succeed.

We must throw the student into the well.  Down at the bottom with the scum and mud the student will not find his way out alone.  The student must recall the lessons you have tried to teach him.  You cannot condemn without a way to succeed.  To punish a student only serves as a waste of time and a cause of anger.  To put the student in a seemingly inescapable situation and allow him to succeed against all odds is a lesson for life,  a lesson not to give up and to use all his knowledge for success.  You have told him how to succeed or get out of the well.  It is up to him to use his mind.  You know that at the bottom of the well is a secret door.  In the darkness and cold the student will have to calm his mind.  He will have to let go of what he thinks the situation is and trust what you have told him.  His anger must be replaced with humility.  You have told him if he ever failed and “fell into the well”, he must look for answers, he must feel the walls.  Only when he gives up will he succeed.  In giving up his own fight, he can now recall your lessons.  Once he feels the walls he will discover a latch.  Once he figures out how to release the latch, a door will open and you will be on the other side ready to embrace him and praise him for not giving up.  We must put our students in impossible situations.  Task them with unattainable goals.  We must do this while all the while making absolutely sure that we will make them succeed if they follow our teachings.  A student must never fail for following our teachings.  Only in this way can we show them that they can succeed, and if they don’t, they will have the knowledge and drive not to be beaten no matter how many times they fail.   Throw your students into increasingly deeper wells and always be waiting for them on the other side, ready to raise them up in glory.

THE BORING LIFE OF A SAFE, NEUTRAL PERSON

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did you ever notice that the most boring people in the world are the people who never take chances and never really seem to fail at anything. They compliment themselves on their failing boring lives.  They all cling to “i’m not gonna worry about it”.  Increasingly, whether it be in martial arts or life in general, people have very little to talk about that you actually want to hear.  I just hate it when you see the same people every day and they say the same thing.  In my case it’s asking if I have coffee in my jug.  Yes , it’s been coffee since they met me, yet every day it’s the same thing.  One trainer is always asking me how i’m doing and no matter what answer I give he say, “all rigghhhtt”.   I usually tell him it’s just another day in the shitter, there are no good days, just levels of tolerating assholes.  He just doesn’t get it- i’m really talking about him and his daily comments and positive attitude.   It used to be that you could run across someone who had a very interesting life — you hung on every word they spoke anticipating what was to come next. Now whoever you talk to engage us in the most boring conversation about their boring life — most of the time people are talking about sports anyway.  The only interesting people are a couple of old guys,  one holds national records for power lifting and freely and proudly tells you about his experiences with steroids and how it almost killed him.  the other is an old cuban.  He tells me about how bad it was and how he almost got taken, shot, arrested and so on and finally escaped.  Outside of them ,  it’s always about sports and drinking.    Shit they don’t even talk about women any more.   Where did the men go.   I guess if there were some hot women at the gym,  they would talk more about it,  but the bags that are there are only worth making fun of.    Don’t they know how bad they look in the tight outfits —-  looks like a muffin that has too much batter and is spilling over,   only the muffin has some firmness and is pleasing.

to have anything interesting you must take a chance, and if you fail that is even more interesting than if you succeed as humanity loves to hear about it.  No one wants to voice an opinion any more — we have to be tolerant of everything we do not agree with. No one will will put effort into what they believe in — it’s just easier to go along with the system. No one will tell anyone else that they are offensive — they just turn the other way and boast that they were the bigger person. You know , sometimes someone has to be put in their place — think of it as a good deed for the next person that would have had to listen to that asshole.

It seems everywhere you go all people have to do is look up and see the TV to start telling others about what they saw on a show or the game they watched. I hear them at the gym all day long talking about nonsense — “we did this — we did that — we’re going to…”. They are talking about their sports team. Where do they find the right to speak of the team as though they were part of it. I have had many discussions with sports fanatics about why they feel so connected to their team. They tell me that they take ownership in the team because they are just good fans and there is some sort of pride with that.  Now I’ll piss off a bunch of people and if you are pissed off;….   good ,  start doing something with your life.  In my world they are losers, just as the so-called martial artist who brags about his competition is also a loser in my opinion. I am not saying that sports and competition are not valuable in some aspect to someone somewhere, it is the all-consuming lifestyle that I have a problem with. They base their success in life on picking the winning team or scoring a lucky point in a match.  Hell, most of the time people win the class because they were the only ones to enter it or just 3 people entered ensuring at least one win.  If these people had more going on in a day, they would not be so quick to hold up their team or their trophies — they would be more inclined to tell you of their personal victories. But now, they just sit in a chair getting drunk and eating bad food yelling at the TV ….. and then when they gather they yell at each other about what they would have done if they were on the field or in the ring.  I am continually more and more disgusted with the mixed martial arts world. They call it a “war” and “battle”…. and a host of other terms to incite the feeling of a true battle were mortality is an issue. However there are so many rules and safety nets no one ever really gets hurt. If you really look at it,  in the ring they sustain about 60 hits easily,  in the street usually one good shot puts someone down.   If you want to see a real fight watch the tv shows that feature actual footage tapes from store cams showing robberies and battery.  It just doesn’t happen like in the ring.   So why not call it what it is — it is a sport. It is not a war or a battle, it is a time athletic event with protocols and rules.

Whatever people do for enjoyment is their business. But if we look at it analytically we can tie it to the weakness of the country and the people here. These people that are so obsessed with teams and events they, really don’t have anything going on in their own lives. They are so comfortable and suffer so little they have all become weak and reliant.  I rarely hear anyone who had an exciting life talking with such enthusiasm about the same bullshit every day.  They can always apply something to their own experiences.  They can be part of a conversation about ,  let’s say MMA, and interject some interesting account of their own….. like maybe the time they got sucker punched.   Someone who has been in the heat of battle and has encountered death in the most gruesome way would not call an mma fight a war or battle. Someone who actually played a sport professionally has the right to say “we — my team — and so on”. But someone who has never been on that team or in that war who uses possessive terms is no different than the Wal-Mart worker who states “I don’t have that” or “I will be getting it in next week”. That worker is merely a worker. An insignificant spec of nothing that can easily be replaced.  He may be a good worker and a great person.    A pillar of society, but as far as walmart is concerned, he is nothing,  just as the fan does not really mean a thing to the players or the outcome of a game.  It’s the fans,  all of them as a whole that makes the money and the atmosphere,   not the one guy who thinks he is the greatest thing on HIS team. Back to the employee of any establishment.   He is not getting it in — he does not have it on  13 — Wal-Mart is getting it in and Wal-Mart stocks it on  13. People do this because there is so little going on in their lives and so little for them to be proud of that they cling  to any little bit of power they can.

These people never take risks — they never stand on one side or the other — they are always neutral claiming that they are superior for not starting a problem. Well sometimes it just doesn’t pay to turn the other cheek…. you just get that one slapped too.  We can see the consequences of tolerance all around us in these trying times. We have to be tolerant of certain groups that we know are wrong — we have to be tolerant of certain behaviors and activities that we know are wrong — we have to be tolerant of so many things in the name of freedom– yet the more tolerant we are the less freedoms we have. People should grow just a little bit and realize that when this country was founded it was founded on a certain premise. As times change sometimes you must exclude people or behaviors in order to keep something good. By accepting everyone and their behaviors or lifestyles, you cannot uphold standards.  After all ,  let’s just think what a standard is.   It’s a bar, a requirement,  a needed something.   When we are forced to accept everyone for who they are,  we cannot hold them to standards of anything.   It’s the perfect excuse to fail or just be a jerk.  Just say they have to accept you for who you are.   Just don’t be disciplined, animated, and interesting or you will be pegged as OC or ADD,  discipline and success have become known as a disease to be treated….. not respected.

Just a side note,  it’s on the news right now that military recruiters  are having the hardest time in history finding fit recruits.  They stated that ages 17-23 are the most unhealthy group ever.    There you go,  no standards, no discipline, a very comfortable and neutral life.  They have it so easy and look what all that freedom of choice,  all that tolerance,  all that bullshit produced.   But let’s praise them for being boring and accepting everyone for who they are.

For instance, I could easily have more students if I throw my standards in the toilet. I could easily have a large school passing out belts to kids like everyone else. But that is not what I founded my school on. I can not have a large public school as my credo involves realistic training. Realistic training involves realistic actions and realistic conversations. I have a black student….. not african american,  just a black student,                                                                                                       {    he likes to black,  I only say this as it is crucial to my point,  I don’t see him as black,  only my student and friend} This student is in law enforcement and takes no offense to any racial jokes or comments. We take no offense to his.  The very reason he came to train with me is for the very real training which he puts his life on daily. In fact he makes more racial jokes and any of us. But where it is important is that inmates often call him by racial terms and he is a big enough man to just walk away and continue his job — he does not let his emotions get in the way. He has conditioned himself and is a successful person with many college degrees. He is involved in fights almost daily as he is on a cert team. This is an interesting guy to talk to — he has some pretty good stories about his daily job. I never hear him yakking about sports or the menial crap I hear the boring losers. He has very interesting stories about his daily job and they are always different.  He makes a difference in many people’s lives.   We all make fun of ourselves,  I always reference my gut, another is so skinny he looks like he escaped from a prison camp,  another is over 50 and we rag on his age,  we are friends and can joke with eachother.   It makes class interesting and fun.  But not politically correct.   but that’s another subject.

In martial arts my students talk about their training and it is very interesting. When I asked a student from another school what their training involves and what they did last class it is very hard to give them my full attention as it is always the same story — we did some warm-ups — push-ups — we scratched — we started class with some blah blah blah. It’s always the same thing– you never really hear of anybody doing anything interesting or getting better or hurt. Getting hurt is pretty interesting to hear about. It shows that training was hard and the interesting part is how they coped with it and what they learned from it. But to just listen to how someone did some situps is very boring. For instance, last class we did gun defense drills with a paintball  gun. This is an interesting story. We used a handgun because it is very realistic — not one of those big bulky 500 hopper ball guns,   it really looks like a semi automatic handgun and it even takes a magazine. Everything about this gun is very real. The slide goes back and forth, the magazine is released with a little button on the side of the frame just like a real gun. It shoots smaller paintballs then the larger guns and they hurt like hell. It is CO2 cartridge operated so even if the paintball misses you use still get a blast of air that is simulating muzzle blast. When people do handgun defenses they always forget about muzzle blast. I recently conducted a training course for a close protection team and one of our drills demonstrated the effects of muzzle blast very clearly. I won’t go into the drill specifics but will just say that it was a quick draw simulating someone rushing  and you would hold him off with one hand and shoot with the other. The muzzle of the gun was only about a foot away from the target. On my first demonstration I blew the target paper in half and took out a large piece of cardboard backing. Now even if someone had been quick enough to dodge the bullet the muzzle blast had enough power to give you a pretty good wound and most likely rip your belly open a bit. A vest would protect you from this but if you’ve never experienced it before it would probably stop you from any further techniques. But you don’t experience them with a rubber gun going for your black belt after two years of training. I bet that’s a pretty interesting little story to read. I bet your mind is wandering thinking what was the rest of the drill and what is a close protection teams anyway. Well a close protection team is a bunch of bodyguards but stay close to a certain person that they are guarding. I believe that a close protection team should be trained to use as many weapons as possible as you never know what you may encounter in the field and what you may have to take away from someone — you should know the ballistics and capabilities of each caliber, you should know how to repel vertical and inverted — you should definitely have some very good tactical driving skills — you should have a very good ability to drive a motorcycle — anything from a street bike to a dirt bike or four wheeler. During this course we did tactical driving and deploying from the vehicle using a tack light to disorient the threat and conceal our movement upon engagement.

I’m sure that got off the subject a bit but it demonstrated the point. I bet you found it much more interesting to read and to think about then someone yelling about their team scoring a touchdown. I have been very fortunate to have had an interesting life. I still try to have an interesting life but age is getting me down and I am no longer willing to take the risks that I used to. That proves my point right there — when I was younger I would take risks, sometimes I would fail. Now that I am older I take fewer risks in my life is much more boring.

I think the biggest problem is that people are afraid of failure. So they never start anything that they can fail at. But even failure is part of learning — in fact it is the biggest part of learning — suffering defines us and gives us character. My suffering at the hands of others has been a learning experience for me to pass on to my students — for instance there have been many times when I have tried techniques in my younger years that worked in class and I got the shitt beat out of me because they didn’t work outside of class. Not only did I learn from that — now I am able to instruct my students in what not to do and the pitfalls of taking things for granted and not testing your techniques in the real world, but it makes for interesting stories. I always hold the attention of the room when I tell a story of perhaps a security job that I worked– lets say we were engaged in a fight breaking up a bunch of drunks and a knife came out — it is very interesting — of course everyone is hoping someone got nailed with that knife — and usually it was me. When I pause everyone in the room seems to pause with me and not breethe — I know that I have an interesting story going and people are very interested in hearing it. Then of course someone asks, ” so did anyone get hurt”?  ah, now for the very interesting part as I show them my scar.  Yes I tell them someone did get hurt– pointing to the gash on my arm or leg — whichever story I am telling. But it is interesting because I took a chance at a very dangerous job. Many people would say that it’s crazy and why risk it — but as I get older & risk less – less my life becomes more and more boring.

In closing take note of the people you talk to. How interesting are they to listen to? They probably tell you the same thing every time you see them. It’s probably the same story about their spouse, about their job, about their favorite sports team, about how they got drunk and got sick, what ever it may be it’s probably just the same thing wearing a different hat every time you see them. When was the last time that you bump into someone you haven’t seen for a few weeks and they truly had an interesting story to tell you?

Just to finish about the paintball training, here’s the interesting part. Of course it couldn’t just stay with serious training. That would be boring. So one thing leads to another and somebody takes a cheap shot at someone else while they are bending over to pick up something. Then someone else shoots somebody in the belly and says it was an accident. Of course all these things are taken in good fun as they are meant. Now remember it says right on the instructions not to shoot anybody closer than 20 feet as it may cause severe damage and a T-shirt does not offer too much protection. So by the end of training everyone is running around shooting each other with paintballs and the target of choice is the crotch. Once again it takes a special person to think this is fun,  but someone who thinks it’s just too dangerous is not someone I want to be in a real encounter with…. imagine what they would think about real bullets! So you can imagine how bad that would hurt if you got hit there- right on the nob!   Now isn’t this a much more interesting story of training for gun defenses than “yes we did some very advanced techniques at black belt class — if someone put a gun to your head you could take it away very easily — I had one of the instructors put a gun to my head and I quickly turned and took the gun from them and then I delivered the killing blow with my hand rendering them unconscious”. Then of course you must ask “was it a real gun?. And then they’re face drops as they search for an answer that is not so boring, but they just can’t hide the boring truth and finally admit- “no, it was a rubber gun”. How boring — a rubber gone — I bet there was a lot of yelling and screaming and that killing blow — holy crap you mean you could really kill someone with one strike of your hand? What a bunch of bullshit.   These are the same people that wear gloves at the gym ’cause their little tender hands hurt.  How boring. I think my story is much more interesting because there are elements of surprise and in the end everyone managed to do dodge the crotch bullet except me. Now that’s a pretty interesting story and of course you want to know how bad did it hurt — really bad —but I kept on going.

Today is leg day and I will be squatting with much pain.  It is evident in my walk that something is wrong and I’m sure somebody will ask me what happened figuring I fell or just pulled a muscle. I’m sure this very interesting story will draw a crowd and leave people shaking their head telling me how crazy I am.   but even though it sounds crazy that I would engage in such training with my students, we are very trained and we take that training into our daily lives. I will do my usual 10 sets of squats and then leg presses and then leg extensions and then leg curls and end off with some kata.  I will return to the gym tonight with my girlfriend and do some finishing exercises and hit the bag a bit with her.

Sadly all I have to look forward to is listening to those idiots talk about the game they sat in a chair and watched while drinking beer and eating chips. Nothing interesting will come from their lips. They take no chances, therefore they have no failure, therefore they have not learned and are the same person they were last week- just a bit lazier, weaker, diminished in their marriage, a bit more blind to the truth,  more of a loser… and of course,   more boring.

Don’t be boring. Take a chance and fail. it makes for a great story   it makes you interesting

the yin and yang of life.   without failure there can be no success

but I wonder where to analogy is with these boring people.   I guess without them I wouldn’t be so interesting

TIME TO DISCUSS THE TRUE PATH,

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RATHER THAN WRITING MY VIEWS, I THOUGHT I WOULD QUOTE SOMEONE ELSE. I HAVE SPENT SO MUCH TIME TALKING ABOUT HOW THINGS HAVE DEGRADED IN MARTIAL ARTS, I THOUGHT IT WAS TIME TO ESTABLISH WHAT PATH I TRAIN VS. THE COMMERCIAL SCHOOLS.
FOR THE NON TRAINING READER THIS IS CRUCIAL, FOR THE TRAINING READER, MOST LIKELY YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE TRAINING THIS WAY, BUT MOST LIKELY IT IS THE ILLUSION OF THE THE ABSENCE OF THIS PATH.

A Koryu Primer
by Diane Skoss
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What is koryu bujutsu?

Koryu literally means “old flow” and is used in Japanese to refer to old styles, schools, or traditions (not necessarily only in the martial arts). The simplest English translation of this term is “classical.” Bujutsu is one of several Japanese terms meaning martial arts or techniques (I won’t get into the whole jutsu/do issue here; there are differences between “do” arts and “jutsu” arts but they are not as large as many people imagine, in my opinion). So, putting the two together, you get “classical martial arts” (of Japan).

This leads to the next question: What precisely is a Japanese classical martial art? Unfortunately, it is impossible to provide a precise definition. Some folks use the date of 1876, when the act prohibiting the wearing of swords (Haitorei) was promulgated, as a dividing line between classical and modern martial arts. Others prefer to use the term “koryu bujutsu” only for those arts developed for actual use on the battlefield and thus reserve the term for sixteenth century and earlier traditions.

Classical traditions (however you date them) do have several defining characteristics. They were developed by and for the bushi, or warrior class, and they have some sort of lineage that runs back through each headmaster or menkyo kaiden (or equivalent) to the founder of the tradition. This is the “stream” of the tradition; although there may be branches (in some traditions each generation was expected to found their own “sub-tradition”), in general the structure is one of a single “flow” from one (usually) head instructor through students to the next generation. The student-teacher relationship is central to transmission of techniques, and these techniques were initially designed to ensure victory on the battlefield. Systems that don’t exhibit all these characteristics are quite likely not koryu.
Classical versus modern

In actual practice, both in Japan and in the West, koryu bujutsu (pronounced “core-you boo-jut-su”–never “core-roo” please!) is used to refer rather loosely to the older martial arts of the bushi or samurai. Usually the emphasis is on distinguishing between the classical systems and the gendai budo (modern martial arts), such as judo, kendo, and aikido. These modern arts all have some connection to the older fighting systems of the warrior class: judo, for example, derives primarily from Tenjin Shinyo-ryu and Kito-ryu jujutsu; kendo comes from a number of different old-style, or koryu, kenjutsu traditions. Modern arts were developed after the disbanding of the warrior class, can be taught to large groups, and are designed to educate and develop the human being as a whole.
Developed by warriors for warriors

The koryu (as we sometimes say for short), on the other hand, were primarily arts created by and for the warrior class of Japan’s feudal period. A few traditions still exist that were actually used on the battlefields of pre-Tokugawa Japan, and in these systems effectiveness of the killing technique is still paramount. Other traditions were developed during the peace of the Tokugawa shogunate to help warriors-turned-bureaucrats maintain some level of fighting skill; still others were meant from the start to be “disciplines,” with more emphasis on spiritual benefits than on technical skills useful in fighting. Thus, the koryu exist (both today and in the past) along a continuum of purposes, much like that of modern American martial arts. For the most part, however, the techniques of the koryu still retain an element of danger; protective gear is typically not used. Safety is less important than efficacy; though wooden weapons are usually used in place of live steel blades, these can still do considerable damage if an error is made, and one learns to function out at the edge.
Unique Japanese social structure

What distinguishes the koryu most clearly from the modern disciplines is the social structure of the ryu–which is a very particular and peculiar Japanese construct that cannot be faked (see the review of Geisha, for some more information). Though there are some made-in-the-USA ersatz koryu, who parade around in rigid hierarchies with elaborate Japanese trappings, anyone who has functioned within a genuine koryu can spot the fraud. In the true koryu traditions, culture and technique are part of a cohesive whole that includes the headmaster, traditional licenses, and a unique code of behavior. While there’s no question that it is possible to learn/teach just the techniques of a koryu in isolation from the rest (and there are those who are doing this–the open seminar format, so popular in the West is a good example), the result is, in my opinion, a mere parody of the rich wealth, both technical and spiritual, found in these ancient traditions.
Student-Teacher Relationship

What this means, for practical purposes, is that if you cannot go and spend a decade or more training in Japan, you MUST seek out someone who has. To participate fully in the koryu you must be in direct contact, through your teacher if needs be, with the headmaster (soke) or other fully licensed instructor (menkyo kaiden or equivalent). The relationship between student and teacher is the core of both the social structure and technical transmission. Without it, you might as well be learning tiddly-winks (no offense to serious tiddly-winkers intended)! Each student is taught individually, and not everyone learns the same things in the same sequence or at the same pace. Instead of the dan grades characteristic of the modern arts, the teacher issues a traditional license–and this process is not standardized or codified. When the teacher judges the student to be ready, the license is granted.
You can’t generalize the koryu bujutsu

This is merely the briefest of overviews. One important fact to keep in mind when studying the koryu is that it is impossible to make entirely accurate generalizations. Each ryu is a unique and individual entity with a distinctive identity. The name of the highest license in one art may be the lowest level of license in another; some use entirely unique terms for their licenses. Some traditions function under the control of a single headmaster; others are divided into several lines under the guidance of fully licensed instructors. Some traditions have no headmaster at all. The best source for information on any given ryu is a member in good standing, for many of the details of a particular ryu’s culture are never written down.
Reading List

For our own training group, we expect prospective students to do some background reading before they may begin training. If you are seriously interested in training in the koryu, I’d highly recommend that you read the following BEFORE you begin to look for an instructor.
Articles at Koryu.com (best if read in the order listed):

* General Introductions
* “Classical Martial Arts & Ways” by Meik Skoss
* “Sword & Spirit Intro: A Coconut Palm in Missouri” by Dave Lowry
* “Sighting the Grizzly” by Dave Lowry
* “Koryu Bujutsu Introduction” by Diane Skoss

* General History
* “A Bit of Background” by Meik Skoss

* The ryu
* “What is a Ryu?” by Wayne Muromoto
* “Introduction to Field Guide to the Classical Japanese Martial Arts” by Diane Skoss

* Authenticating the koryu
* “Classical Martial Arts in the West: Problems in Transmission” by Dave Lowry
* “Real or Fake?” by Wayne Muromoto
* “Transmission & Succession in the Classical Arts” by Meik Skoss
* “The Whole Legitimacy Thing” by Karl Friday

* Training in the koryu
* “You want koryu? Come to Japan” by Diane Skoss
* “Koryu Training in Japan” by Diane Skoss
* “The Meaning of the Martial Arts: Some Reflections From Along the Way” by Diane Skoss
* “Some Thoughts on Learning Koryu in the West” by Diane Skoss
* “The Meaning of Martial Arts Training: A Conversation with Sawada Hanae” by Meik Skoss

Books

* Comprehensive Asian Fighting Arts by Donn F. Draeger and Robert W. Smith
* Martial Arts & Ways of Japan series (3 vols.) by Donn F. Draeger: Classical Bujutsu; Classical Budo; Modern Bujutsu and Budo
* Classical Warrior Traditions of Japan series (3 vols.) edited by Diane Skoss: Koryu Bujutsu; Sword & Spirit; Keiko Shokon
* Moving Toward Stillness by Dave Lowry
* Traditions by Dave Lowry
* Persimmon Wind by Dave Lowry
* Geisha by Liza Dalby
* Daughter of the Samurai by Etsu Sugimoto
* The Fighting Spirit of Japan by E.J. Harrison
* Old School: Essays on Japanese Martial Traditions by Ellis Amdur

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great article I read, ONLY A FEW STUDENTS EVER SEE THIS

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The Meaning of the Martial Arts: Some Reflections Along the Way
by Diane Skoss

Did I have even the slightest idea of what I was getting into when I started my martial arts training? Absolutely not! Do I have a clue as to what’s going on now? Perhaps just a hint, thanks to several extraordinary teachers and their equally extraordinary arts. Is it necessary for someone just starting out on the path of the Japanese martial ways to have an idea of what might be in store? Not really, in my opinion, since the Japanese budo are a process, not a goal. There’s no way we can understand or evaluate the complete meaning of budo until we reach the end of the road; and for most of us on the path, that’s the end of our days on this earth.

If the shape of the trail can’t be seen while we’re still on it, why then even attempt to map it? What’s the point in my personal “mission” of providing more accurate information and explanations of the rare and often misunderstood Japanese classical warrior traditions (koryu bujutsu) to non-Japanese? Before I answer that, let’s define a few terms.

One important thing I’ve discovered since my return to the U.S. after more than a decade in Japan is that the English term “martial arts” is not at all equivalent to either standard Japanese term, “budo” or “bujutsu.” We have here in the States a “martial arts industry,” much of which appears to me to be a grotesque, almost farcical, distortion of what I believe to be most valuable about these arts. Catering to “clients” is a topic of serious discussion among some instructors, and “Kardio Kick-boxing” is all the rage. Some even advocate dropping requirements for traditional training wear, arguing that a woman’s self-esteem can be affected badly by the stiff unflattering garments we ask her to wear.

I beg your pardon? What ever happened to discipline? To learning how to do something that is perhaps a little uncomfortable or downright scary in order to stretch yourself? Learning things, without complaint, that make no sense now, but that surely and inevitably provide the building blocks for future progress and understanding? There are historical and aesthetic reasons for the Japanese keikogi we wear. Changing the uniform breaks our links to the time and culture in which our arts originated. Austerity and simplicity are the norm in dojos in Japan; photographs, flags, trophies, certificates, posters, and colorful training wear are merely an annoying distraction. The classical warrior traditions that I have learned do not exist for a participant’s amusement but are serious endeavors not to be undertaken casually. The “martial arts industry” resembles more a fast-food restaurant, promising sure and quick results.

Now there’s nothing inherently wrong with a wide variety of approaches to martial arts. Each of us begins our training for our own reasons, and we look for an art or teacher that can satisfy those needs as we understand them at that time–or at least that’s what we ought to do. Some are looking for an activity to share with a friend, others for exercise; some are into competition, while some folks are looking to learn to fight, and others are looking a spiritual path. I’d argue that one of the major limitations of the McDojo mass-market approach is that it can fill only a limited range of needs and that, as a student’s level and commitment grows, there comes a point where the franchise gym/school simply has no more to offer. The reasons we train most definitely do evolve, and it is a very rare teacher of a strong and comprehensive system that has the depth and breadth to encompass a student’s entire training career. For example, when I started aikido, it was to learn a little self-defense and to share an activity with a boyfriend. Later, as I was not particularly talented or psychologically prepared, it was because it was the most difficult thing I had ever tried to do. After five years I realized that there weren’t teachers in my immediate area who could guide me further, so I headed off to Japan. There, my reasons for doing budo continued to evolve and change, and I sought and found the arts and teachers that I needed.

Now I am training to uncover the complete nature of my art and my self. It certainly is a bonus that along the way I’ve acquired life skills that can keep me safe–but knowing how to fight is no longer a particular goal (though it amazes me at times how deeply some lessons have sunk into my brain. I find myself hollering at the TV screen when some helpless female, backing fearfully away from an attacker fails to make use of objects at hand to protect herself. Or I yell at the FBI agent who has positioned himself stupidly–presumably verisimilitude is less important than camera angle. And just the other night, I remarked that what a character who was sneaking aboard a ship really needed was a blowgun and poison darts! Now, for you guys these may not seem extraordinary observations, but I assure you that most women are not raised to them. I believe that this bizarre tactical sensor is a direct result of my training in Japanese classical arts).

The martial arts that I have practiced are not easy–nor are they necessarily fun (though if you find yourself in a situation that is unremittingly unpleasant, you may need to reassess your choice of art or instructor). And while learning budo is hard work, it doesn’t need to resemble military boot camp training. Dedication and a willingness to cope with and overcome frustrations, adaptability, and above all perseverance to continue pursuing a goal that will never be reached–these are qualities of a strong human being. I have learned these from budo.

Thus, I’ve come to dread the reactions I get when I say that I practice “martial arts.” The young woman at the video store says, “Oh, like Jackie Chan?” A suburban housewife wonders if I’d be willing to teach her young son karate. “Oh, do you practice at that place next to the supermarket?” another neighbor asks, referring to the local taekwondo chain school. It is unfortunate that the public consciousness can so quickly forget the moral tale of the “Karate Kid” (which although Hollywood’s version, did depict something of what the Japanese arts are all about in the Mister Miyagi character) and replace it with the gun-slinging antics of a Steven Seagal. So, instead, I’m trying to remember to reply, “Oh, I study Japanese budo.” This is more likely to lead to reasonable questions by the uninitiated, and gives me a chance to explain that Japanese martial arts are not necessarily similar to media portrayals in the West.

But, if I tell a fellow Japanese martial artist that I practice budo, a whole new set of misunderstandings arise. Donn Draeger, who paved the way for all of us who pursue the classical arts, oversimplified some of his definitions. He was one of the first to write systematically about Japanese martial arts, in his Martial Arts and Ways of Japan series, and many take his dichotomy of budo and bujutsu (further divided into classical and modern) as gospel. We learn, when we read Draeger, that budo is translated “martial way.” Arts whose names end in the suffix -do are modern developments with a fair degree of emphasis on character building and “spiritual forging.” (The notion of “michi” or “do” is an important part of Japanese culture and like most other ideas in Japan, everyone there shares a similar understanding of what it means to be a “follower of the way.” This is less immediately understood in the West.) Bujutsu, on the other hand, is “martial technique or skill”; arts whose names end in -jutsu are the “real” fighting arts that gave rise to the more civilized (others say weaker) budo. Values have come to be attached to the terms–some view bujutsu as barbaric and crude, while others see budo as emasculated shadows of noble predecessors.

Naturally, neither view is true, and the dichotomy (with or without the values) is not so simple. While the do/jutsu contrast certainly describes aspects of different approaches to any given Japanese art, it simply is not used to neatly categorize and characterize the arts in Japan. Yagyu Nobuharu, headmaster of the venerable Yagyu Shinkage-ryu tradition of heiho, sometimes refers to his art as kendo, even though it is quite clearly classical kenjutsu and not at all related to modern kendo. The two most respected organizations in Japan devoted to the promotion of the remaining classical Japanese traditions (koryu bujutsu) are the Nihon Kobudo Kyokai, and the Nihon Kobudo Shinkokai. No “jutsu” in either name, yet the membership is comprised virtually exclusively of classical warrior traditions, with names ending in -jutsu. And if one were to use the distinction that jutsu arts are practiced “for real” while the do arts are practiced for self-perfection, you’d find that, in Japan at least, only the police and the military are practicing jutsu. The rest of us, no matter what we might like to think, are actually practicing a “way,” since we have no opportunity to face an armor-clad sword-wielding opponent in real life. And some “ways” (whether do or jutsu) include practical methods of “real” fighting.

In my opinion, almost all Japanese martial arts contain within them aspects of jutsu and aspects of do. Different teachers may well emphasize one or the other. One of my teachers has taught me that you enter the do through the vehicle of the jutsu. In other (my) words, one uses the perfecting of killing techniques to progress along the way of perfecting one’s life. There’s danger, in my opinion, in striving too directly for spiritual enlightenment, without the tempering of striking to kill and being struck at to be killed (even when the blows are stopped just short of the target). It is often far too easy in these situations for the movements to lose their inherent “truth” as valid fighting techniques and to degenerate into little more than a choreographed dance sequence. Learning to give and receive the combative intention is vital. Yet, there’s equal danger in concentrating merely on learning to disable and kill without transforming the techniques into a confrontation with the soul.

I simply no longer bother making the distinction when I describe my training as budo, even though most of the arts I practice have names that end in -jutsu. Instead of the do/jutsu distinction, I’ve found it more useful to characterize arts based on when they were founded, by whom, and for what purposes. I make one large general distinction between classical (koryu = old traditions) and modern (gendai = present-day generation) arts. The gendai budo in Japan are officially listed by the Ministry of Education, and include judo, kendo/iaido/jodo, kyudo, sumo, karatedo, aikido, Shorinji kempo, atarashii naginata, and jukendo/tankendo (you may wonder why a few arts are lumped together; this is because they are officially administered by a single organization). Beginning in the Meiji period, these arts (except sumo, which has a very ancient history indeed) were distilled from earlier fighting arts (the koryu bujutsu) and were designed largely to promote physical and moral education. Most include instructional methods and curricula that can be used with larger groups. Formalized competition was also developed in most of these modern arts as a training method to test the mettle of the trainee and the efficacy of technique. Unfortunately, several arts–for example, judo, jukendo, and competitive aikido–are in danger of becoming indistinguishable from sports, where rules, points and winning are important considerations during training.

At the opposite end of the continuum from the gendai budo and martial-based sports are the koryu bujutsu, or classical martial traditions of the Japanese warrior. Strictly speaking these are the arts that were developed by Japanese warriors for use on the battlefield, and they trace their origins to before the beginning of the Tokugawa era. Maniwa Nen-ryu, Katori Shinto-ryu, and Takenouchi-ryu are among the few traditions from this period that still survive. During the peaceful Edo period, arts continued to evolve or be created by the warrior bureaucracy, these “warrior arts” are apt to contain a more obvious spiritual component and often focus on one portion of the overall martial curriculum, specializing in one weapon, for example. Most classical schools of sword-drawing arose in this period, and a number of arts were refined from earlier battlefield traditions to answer the needs of training the peacetime warrior in the use of his weapons. But the Japanese warrior remained a man-at-arms, his status announced by the two swords (daisho) he carried.

Although there are differences between the battlefield arts and the Edo period warrior arts, their similarities distinguish them decisively from the budo developed after the Meiji Restoration. The warrior class was officially disbanded by the Haitorei of 1876, which prohibited the carrying of the warrior’s symbol of status, the daisho. Arts developed (outside the military) after this time, were civilian arts, thus not, to my way of thinking, koryu bujutsu.

To get back to the question of whether there’s any point in trying to educate people about the koryu. My experiences have led me to believe that there is a very special value in training in a classical Japanese tradition. This is not to say that one can’t have similar experiences in a modern budo–in fact, my own jukendo/tankendo training was extremely classical in flavor–but I’ve found the classical traditions to be a more likely context for certain lessons.

Modern budo are typically governed by large national and even international organizations that are responsible for developing and perpetuating a curriculum and standards. The koryu bujutsu, in contrast, exist usually in a small old-fashioned Japanese social unit, the ryuha, led by a single headmaster, who is responsible for the maintenance and continuation of the tradition. “Ryu” (in both ryuha and koryu) means “flow” or “stream” and this stream is a terrific metaphor for the way a koryu is passed down to us. The techniques, principles, customs, strategy, and philosophies of a ryuha are transmitted directly from master teacher (usually, but not always the headmaster) to student. In the koryu, only the headmaster or a fully licensed instructor has received the complete transmission of the ryuha, which often includes secret oral teachings as well as hidden interpretations of the physical movements. Only these people can continue the stream of the transmission, because they are the only ones who have the entire picture. This is one reason why the koryu ryuha tend to stay small. Even when there are several fully qualified and authorized instructors, the raising of a single student, like raising a child, is a consuming task, and most teachers can’t support more than a dozen direct “disciples” over a lifetime.

By rights, this system of transmission should be sufficient to ensure an art’s survival. Alas, at the turn of the twenty-first century–as arts are striving to exist in a world that is ever more alien to their original context–it is not. One Japanese headmaster I know fears the demise of “true” koryu in Japan (unfortunately, there are some ryuha that have become modern and commercialized, even in Japan). Another is convinced that the future of “true” Japanese budo lies outside Japan–with foreigners and our more analytical minds, and precise languages.

There’s a very serious problem, however, in losing even more context when these arts are taken out of Japan. In a sense, the point of my activities as a writer and publisher is the same as my work in the garden in early spring. I’m trying to prepare the ground so the plants have a possibility of flourishing. The Japanese koryu are inextricably bound to the Japanese culture. Since not every possible student can manage to devote a decade or more to living in Japan to learn these arts, there must be other new ways to fill that culture gap. I am hoping that my publications can help provide some background so that non-Japanese students can get the most from their koryu training.

Finally, to get back to the goal of training in the martial arts. It is, to me at this particular point in my training, a simple one. The late Ueshiba Kisshomaru summed it up in a comment to my husband. “If you train every day, by the time you reach the end of your life, you’ll be able to look back and say, ‘I trained.’ That’s really all there is to it.” In Japan I learned from my teachers and dojo mates that the meaning of martial arts was simply training, week after week, year after year. Insights quietly blossom, are nurtured, to sprout further understandings. Training is the way.
Copyright ©1999 Diane Skoss. All rights reserved.
This article first appeared in Warriors and Sages: Essays on the Martial Way, forthcoming.
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EXPERIENCE OF VIOLENCE LEADS TO THE ABSENCE OF VIOLENCE

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let me start off by stating the worst kind of violence is that towards helpless animals.  People look the other way all the time.  This blog is about martial training,  I do not think anyone should be allowed to engage in fighting any animal or fighting animals against each other.  These people should be treated as they treat animals.  what cowards.

The countries who are the worst to their animals are usually the worst countries.

this blog is strictly about the scam and irresponsibility of the commercial dojo.

if people would just stop for moment and see reality,  we would not be such a violent species, maybe we would change.

it may sound like a crazy thought but there is truth to it. Why are people so eager to hurt each other? Why is everyone so intrigued by a weapon that could take life quickly and brutally? Humans by nature are a very violent and destructive species. Since the dawn of man his agenda has been to take over and conquer everything — always creating some new weapon of distruction. It may have started with a pointy stick and rock but it has evolved to nuclear weapons that could wipe the planet clean of life. Every night on the news we see examples of how violent of a race we are. Humans are always seeking a way to hurt each other and destroy most everything on the planet.  This does pertain to the point of this site, martial arts, so just bear with me for a moment.

why do most people get involved in martial arts? For the sake of violence. Rarely do we see anyone who is genuinely studying an art just for the sake of studying that particular art. There is always the underlying cause of “how bad could I fuck someone up”.  Usually the new student has been picked on and seeks a way to defend themselves against the bully or the new student is some loser who never had any success or authority and is now seeking that in the dojo. They feel that through the attainment of rank they will have to be given respect. They feel that with their new superpowers they will be able to somehow change their life and be what they wish they were but have failed to become. This is sometimes the case — it is where martial arts training succeeds — making a better and complete person. However, most of the time the rule will fail because the new student is not studying the art for the sake of the art, they are studying the art for the sake of violence. We see all the time a new student or even a senior student bragging about how they could easily break a knee or snap someone’s neck. They practice moves in class and simulate killing all the time. I suppose this was my path as a young child also. But a child is innocent and requires guidance from a teacher — a teacher is the only one that shapes the student — not the instructor. Refer back to blog on teacher versus instructor. I should have been taught in my childhood that the art was separate from the actual violence that it was teaching. It seems all the schools preach this but it never gets through to the students. Sadly many instructors spend their entire career bragging about their devastating skills yet they have never been in a fight and have never witnessed death up close and personal.

Humans as a breed gravitate towards the violent and disruptive side of martial art training. If we look at the dojo’s today we will find very little ritual that is not a generic act just to get class started. Sure the instructor calls out commands for meditation and clearing your mind but does the instructor ever truly explain what this meditation should encompass? Does the instructor ever explain how he was once ignorant of the process -all the phases he experienced during his path? These instructors simply tell the new student to clear their mind and a ready their chi in preparation for class. What the hell is this supposed to mean? This is because the instructor has not followed a path — a path of a martial art — he is just a fighter and now a businessman making money.

Let me expound for a bit I thought I had last night while cooking dinner. For several days now I have been thinking about what to say in this blog. As stated early on the purpose of my blog is to someday publish a book and to have this blog serve as a sort of timeline of how my personality and training has changed as I got older. My hope was to pass this on to my senior student who would take over my system — however it seems I will never find my deshi -everyone has lost a taste for the old ways — it’s just too hard. So for several days I have been contemplating the plight of man and his violent nature. I have been remembering times in my own past that I have acted violently towards someone and question myself about my own integrity. Have I followed the path that I now preach? Or did I lash out in senseless violence against someone and hurt them needlessly just to prove my martial training? At the end of my contemplation I can proudly say that there have only been a handful of times where I have acted violently without good reason — however ,I still had some reason. I never disabled someone over a comment or stabbed someone for taking the last cookie. Sure I have yelled and screamed at irritating people but I never started a fight. When I look back at the teachings that outlined my path of protecting the innocent, I do not find any of that in the schools that I was part of.I find that teaching to be part of my upbringing from my family. Another very important part of my adult thinking was the fact that I was bullied constantly as a child. I was very asthmatic and small. I started school one year earlier than everyone else — most of the kids were two years older than me, some three. The violence of being bullied and beaten to a pulp daily has made me less violent in my adult life. I would never do that to an innocent person who could not defend themselves. Instead it has given me a mission to defend the ones who are too weak to defend themselves — of course they have to be innocent and not have been the instigator.

So aside from the violence that I experienced as a child, I have also experienced a great deal of death firsthand. Through jobs that I have held where I was responsible for ejecting drunks I saw firsthand the stupidity of mankind. Many times a drunk would become very violent and things would escalate to a very unpleasant level. Sometimes I would not be part of the confrontation but would witness someone stabbing another or shooting them. All the things that these so-called masters are teaching young students and giving them the propaganda of how great it is to cut someone 15 times before delivering the death blow or to break two or three limbs before trying to break their neck is the most irresponsible and degrading thing — there is no art in this just a small part that is weak and pathetic.  Is it needed?   Sure , sometimes, but it should be taught to people who are responsible and have a need.  It should be taught along with lessons of the law and a heavy focus on the art, not just “:here, stab like this and cut here”/.

Here is the point of tolerance through violence. A soldier who comes back from war, that has witnessed gruesome death face-to-face usually has no taste to train in such things. I have had such people who have come back from war and studied martial arts under my direction. However their experiences left little desire for the fluffy techniques taught in the commercial schools. They were more interested in using martial arts training to calm their mind and help them deal with what they have been through. In my personal  experience I have grown softer with age. I tend to let things go a little easier now. I have not made the complete journey as I should have attained the Enlightenment that the books speak of — treating everyone with love and respect regardless of how they treat me. However, I have not reached that level yet. I will still defend myself and others from assholes who think they are invincible. I still do enjoy studying the destructive and violent side of martial arts. I still do enjoy hunting when I can. But as stated earlier my path has never been one of disgrace.  I always tried to be a champion of the weak as I wish someone would have done for me. The difference is though I may study and art that is brutal and capable of taking life — even though the techniques that I teach are more devastating and  precise than the commercial dojo,  I teach with great responsibility and do not ignore the reality of what the technique will produce. I teach each student according to what they put into the “art” not the fight.  A student who wants to learn the history of the art, study the language deeply commit to the protocols and rituals,  a student that calls out of friendship,  as student that wants to learn useless techniques just because it’s part of the art…. that student I will teach the high level destructive techniques to because I know they look at it as an art and not for any other reason of useless violence.  They are a mental warrior as well.   But the one who wants entertainment, the one who is always seeking shortcuts,  the one who stream lines techniques to make them more efficient in his mind.  The one who has no use for ritual or protocols,  that’s the one who will not begin to scratch the surface of my teachings.  They are not looking for an art,  just a means to pass time and feel like they can fight.   They are limited by their own desire not to limit themselves with useless things.

I talk to my students about the mental aftermath. I tell them of experiences that have been told to me by soldiers who have been in very violent battles and watched their friends die in their arms. I teach my students about death and how it feels to watch the last fleeting moments of life — to see a body in front of you that moments ago was alive and  now dying at your hands — the last gasp of air that the body will ever experience — the blank stare as the eyes seem to look in different directions but always appear to be staring back at you no matter where you move — how the body becomes lifeless and limp and you know you are responsible for it.

In hunting someone will sit camouflaged and wait for an unsuspecting animal who just wants to feed to wander by. They shoot this poor thing from a distance and it runs off. By the time they find it the violent act of death has played its role. All the coughing and gurgling — the pain the poor animal feels as its organs struggle, its lungs begin to collapse — it struggles for another breath of air — it’s heart pumping trying to circulate blood because it just ran to get away from danger — that poor animal finally collapses and struggles with every bit of life many times banging their head against the ground and quivering. Death is slow and no doubt painful. But the idiot hunter walks over to the game long after this play has ended. I mentioned earlier that I do enjoy a good hunt. The differences I always take the time to know the pain that that animal has endured because of me. I practice my marksmanship to ensure a clean well placed shot.  No random center mass bullshit, a clean head shot with a major cal. This may sound our barbaric and hypocritical. I guess it is after all I am still taking the life. But I would equate it to the difference in my training. I teach the brutal techniques that are taught in the commercial school. However, the difference lies in the mindset and the use. As with hunting I would never shoot a deer just because it had a good rack on its head. I do not sit by a feeder that an animal has come to know as a safe place for a meal and shoot the poor thing.  I do not use a pack of dogs or any other tactics that insurer a kill. On the occasional hunt I walk through the woods practicing my art of stealth. The animal has a very good chance of avoiding me. Most of the time I come out empty-handed. But it is the joy of the hunt not the kill. If I should get a turkey or wild pig I always take a moment to stand over the carcass and  acknowledge that I took this life. I would not let it go to waste. I would not just leave it there to rot. Over the years I have lost my taste for hunting as well. In my younger years I really enjoyed trying to get my bag limit every season but now just being in the woods is enough.

As is my usual style I have opened with a thought and deviated from the original question greatly. However, the previous information is pertinent to the argument. In all examples experience of violence has led to the absence of violence. There is no substitute for teaching morality and integrity at an early age. But if you never experience certain acts of violence you will never know just how terrible those acts are. All the techniques in commercial schools for breaking bones take the realism away and the student begins to think that it would be great fun to break someone’s arm. Much like video games that desensitize someone. Of course if you are to save your own life or someone else’s from a violent act you must be ready to do what you have must to stop the threat. But that does not mean that you should take joy in hurting someone or taking life.

So back to the beginning when I was cooking. I was putting some ground beef in a pan. Every time I eat meat I stop for a moment and remember that an animal has died a very horrific death for me to eat it. I am disgusted with my own species -that slaughter houses make the animals suffer. They put more emphasis on production than they do on a life. There really is no reason that these poor animals have to suffer in their last moments so greatly. Sure I could stop eating meat but that would not stop the atrocity. But I do think about it daily. In acknowledging the suffering of that animal that I eat I am less inclined to be a violent person. In keeping constant vigilance during my training  and focusing on the reality of how destructive certain techniques are, I am less likely to use them carelessly.

The problem with modern martial arts is that most of the techniques would never work anyway in the real world. So I guess it all kind of cancels itself out. These idiots are very irresponsible and small minded. They practice techniques of utter destruction — the killing blow after 20 or so strikes that would make Superman beg for mercy — the array of weapons that they are proficient with — each weapon able to kill multiple enemies in one swing — but of course they don’t actually use a sharp knife or a real club, no they practice with rubber and pads. So how are they to understand anything of reality?

In thinking about the slaughterhouse and how those poor animals suffer, I feel less inclined to kill an animal. In thinking about how easily I could hurt a person, I feel less inclined to hurt anyone unless provoked and left no other choice. The greatest training for me has been on the job. The dojo can only provide a low-level of experience. I would not have this appreciation for the art or the responsibility not to use certain techniques if I had not gained actual experience. Simulating a strike in class that you think would break someone’s arm is far different than actually trying it and either their arm does not break and you get the shitt beat out of you or if you’re teacher was thorough in your training you actually break that arm — no amount of class training can prepare you for the pop of that bone and the scream that follows.

I am very fortunate to have had students that have been involved in careers that gave them actual real-life experience. A corrections deputy who has witnessed brutal prison yard stabbings knows what a knife will do. He knows that sometimes 50 cuts and stabs will not stop someone and other times a splinter will put someone to rest. There are no magic techniques. A patrol officer that has been part of shootings knows the reality of what a bullet can do and the chaos of the battle. A soldier who has been in war has an understanding of battle that cannot be taught in the classroom. Executive protection agents that I have worked with have experience that has made them aware and very detail oriented. I have been fortunate to have students of this caliber and this has aided me in my own personal development greatly. At present time my students train very hard and very real. We use real knives that will most certainly slice you open or kill you. We train with real firearms to get accustomed to the weight and all the little bells and whistles that each type has. They are not loaded but even empty a real firearm brings a new level of training that a rubber gun cannot come close to. There are sharp edges, safeties, hammers, and many other things to contend with. People of this caliber make training of this caliber. You cannot train like this with someone who is afraid of a weapon or does not want to get hit hard. You cannot train like this with someone who is so close minded that they are convinced 4 pounds of pressure will shatter a collarbone.

Through the most violent techniques we learned to appreciate the great skill required to conquer our enemy and control the damage we inflict on them. Through the attainment of these skills we learn that it is easy to inflict damage on someone, the true art is being able to end the confrontation in any way that we choose. An idiot who practices that killing shot will most likely get his ass kicked since the killing blow will have little effect. The true martial artist, the professional, the enlightened one will have enough skill to direct the confrontation while it is in progress and have a pre-determined end.  It takes great skill to direct the confrontation and the level of violence.

In closing think about this. There are certain people we meet that we have absolutely no respect for — we just don’t care what they think or who they are. There are others that people gravitate to. These people seem so cool and everyone wants to be accepted by them. There are the others that we don’t even know exist due to their quiet introverted nature. But let’s just separate this into two categories. Some people can walk into a crowded room full of chatter and try to take control — but no matter how many times they ask for everyone to be quiet ,everyone just ignores them. They cannot gain control through any physical or mental approach. Then there are those few who can walk into that same room and without uttering a word or making a gesture everyone suddenly quiets down and give them their full attention and respect. These are the people that the bully somehow knows is the wrong one to pick on. There are certain people that you just know will tear you apart if you start with them. There is certain people that you just know you can’t get away with certain things in their presence. As far as martial arts, these are the people I try to produce and the person I try to be. I feel I have been successful. I love to joke and cut up with people but when the shit goes down, I can put across a quiet message that I can finish what they want to start.

Funny thing about this world we live in. What we have use for we never seem to have, what we have no use for we seem to have plenty of. What we have plenty of no one else seems to want and what we have nothing of everyone wants from us. Without good physical fitness and a strong mental fortitude, usually, we become victims of someone somehow. But when you can destroy someone very easily , when you have good physical fitness and superior strength, a superior mind full of self discipline, when they know that you can take their life, usually they don’t pick on you. Testament to the despicable species that we are. It should be the opposite. The weak should not be preyed upon as they cannot defend themselves. Rather a bully seeking to test his prowess should pick on the strongest, most intimidating, whacked out, dysfunctional killer he could find — that would be a challenge — not picking on someone smaller who guarantees victory. That’s like shooting a deer from 100 yards off while that deer is eating from the feeder that you put there and let him eat without threat all season.

if there are any true martial artist last I would implore you to be a defender of the week and have the integrity to get involved and not just sit back being a spectator and telling others what you would have done if the victim had been you. Especially in this time of unrest with all the laws and the push for gun control. We must all show responsibility in every way and try to stop senseless violence so that we may keep the right to be violent when we have to protect ourselves and our loved ones.

If you don’t want to experience it for real — don’t practice it

just play a video game